Wooden's Wisdom - Volume 13 | Issue 639 |
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MAKE A WEAKNESS A STRENGTH (JIA JIANG AND JOHN WOODEN) To make a weakness a strength you must recognize it.
Lao Tzu, a Chinese philosopher (600 B.C.) wrote: "He who knows others is wise. He who knows himself is enlightened." Coach Wooden wrote: "Valid self-analysis means improvement."
In "The Essential Wooden" Coach wrote that one of his three biggest weaknesses was: "I've had to work hard at being patient." Coach would fix this by starting with a look in the mirror.
Coach Wooden wrote: "A good teacher or coach must not only understand others, but himself or herself as well."
In his book: The Essential Wooden, with Steve Jamison, Coach Wooden put it this way:
"Be hardest on yourself - the model for what you want your team to become. Don't look for others to be your quality control expert. Be your own harshest critic."
By coaching himself, Coach Wooden turned his weakness (lack of patience) into one of his greatest strengths. His trademark as a teacher became, as he said, "Show great patience and do not expect too much too soon."
In his book, "Rejection Proof", ( https://www.rejectiontherapy.com/100-days-of-rejection-therapy ), Jia Jung talks about how, with "Valid self-analysis", we can turn receiving rejection from a weakness into a strength:
"Rejection is an experience that it is up to you to define. It means only what you choose it to mean. Rejection offers us an opportunity to grow, to challenge ourselves, and to overcome the fears and insecurities that block us from meeting our full potential. Any rejection can have hidden upsides, if only we are willing to look for them."
What weakness can you turn into a strength?
Yours in Coaching, Craig Impelman
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