Wooden's Wisdom - Volume 6 | Issue 285 |
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THE JOY OF BEING NEEDED
On page six of a handwritten list of his favorite quotes, Coach Wooden wrote:
Psychiatrists say, "As long as you feel needed, you will always have an interest in life."
On its surface, this seemed to me an unusual quote for Coach to choose. Upon reflection, it made perfect sense because the idea fit in perfectly with Coach Wooden’s fundamental approach to life: Help Others. Coach did not look to help others to get something in return, but if he came across ideas that described the benefits and joy of giving, he liked to share them. For example:
Real happiness begins where selfishness ends.
You cannot live a perfect day without doing something for someone who will never be able to repay you.
The way to have nothing is to give nothing.
Coach felt that in order to be happy, you must: "Have somebody or something to whom you are loyal. "I shared this idea about loyalty at a Wooden Success Class and one of the participants spoke to me after and said he was concerned because he didn’t: "Have somebody or something to whom he was loyal."
The next morning the young man happily approached me before class and advised me he had taken care of his Loyalty Void. I asked him what he did. He replied with a big smile: "I went out last night and bought a puppy. She is so cute, but you know she needs a lot of attention. I am a lot happier."
If you Google: Pets Providing Comfort you will find great articles about the responsibility of having a pet having a positive effect on a wide range of people from Seniors to Veterans with previously incurable PTSD.
Motivational author Tony Robbins did a series of power talks in which he interviewed many famous people.
When he interviewed Coach Wooden he asked: Coach I have met and interviewed many famous and rich people but some of them do not seem to be very happy. What advice would you give them?
Coach replied: They should find somebody they can help.
Coach Wooden lived a happy and productive life for ninety nine years. The secret to his happiness was not money or fame. His life was full of helping others. People were constantly going to him for his opinion. He certainly felt needed. One of his favorite verses summed up his approach:
What I spent, I had;
What I saved, I lost;
What I gave, I have.
How much do you have?
Yours in Coaching, Craig Impelman
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